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If she’s biting herself in the lip while you’re talking, that’s great. She’s probably into you.

30. She invites you for coffee

I don’t want to tell the person I like either. I work at Starbucks and there is this coworker I’m interested in. There are times that she will hugs random objects when only the two of us are engaging in a conversation during work. Once, she was hugging this bucket that we use to store leftover coffee beans out of no reason. And the other she took and hugged a transparent trash bag filled with empty pastry containers and used parchment papers in the midst of talking.

i heard she doesnt like the type to try hard i had a friend ( girl ) talk to her and basically got to the point of her telling her i liked her and we all work together . well the next day we didnt talk for 2 work days and some …. And also she kinda said i was making her ” uncomfortable ” i guess well today at work we talked and laugh alot and she kept touching me calling my name even when their was many other workers. Im just confused how she goes from that to touching and talking an laughing alot with me .

If a girl says she likes you—guess what, she means it! Not only is she into you, but she has the confidence to let you know. That’s pretty amazing. This is probably the most important thing on the list.

This is a really great article. I’m a girl and I have definitely used some of these tricks on text/chat. Enjoyed reading it all.

• But if you’re in an environment with acceptable noise levels and a fair amount of space, and she’s still leaning into you, there’s a good chance she wants you to ask her out.
• Don’t just assume.
• Another sign is that we had an eye contact that maybe lasted 1.5 seconds until I finally looked away.
• Big, showy gestures have their place (we’re never going to complain if a guy sweeps us off to Paris on a mini-break…), but when a girl wants to show that she likes someone, it’ll be through the little details rather than anything grand.
• Is she giving you one-word responses?

It’s not always easy to tell, but she might talk to you more than others, maintain eye contact, laugh a lot at your jokes, respond quickly to your texts, etc. You could also try casually touching her on the arm or leg during conversation and see how she responds. If she smiles, touches you back, etc. these are good signs. Determine whether or not she is interested in you romantically.

If you’ve mentioned the name of your aunt’s dog or your little brother’s birthday and she remembers, that’s proof she’s hanging on your every word and is genuinely interested in what you’re telling her, rather than zoning out. If a girl likes you, she will want to look her most attractive whenever you are around. So she will check her hair, touch up her makeup, and adjust her clothes to their rightful positions. Although some people thrive off these games, most girls don’t have time for them.

An even more telling sign that a girl likes you is when she makes long term plans like visiting a festival or waiting for the release of a new book by a popular author to discuss it later. If you are sitting in one room with other people present and she often meets your eyes and smiles slightly, this is also a very telling sign of her feelings for you.

Why You Can’t Just Ask

Doing the same — thinking about things she might be into and bringing them up in conversation—is a great way to show that you’re interested in her too. This one’s subtle, but you can definitely feel it. A girl’s body language can tell you a lot, especially if you’ve been hanging out for a while. If she consistently turns toward you, opens her posture to you or even touches you — on the elbow, or the shoulder, for example — she definitely likes you. When I’m happy and feel comfortable with someone, I keep my shoulders open to them, as opposed to crossing my arms or turning away, which is what I do when I’m not so into whoever I’m talking to.

Even a girl with a strong and outgoing personality can be shy around the guy that she’s in love with. If you smile back, then she will get the message that you like her too. Going out in large grounds of friends can be fun. If you notice that your female friend would rather hang out with you rather than with a large group, then pay attention! She’s not doing this because her other friends bore her.