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You’re not going to find your girlfriend sitting at home playing WarCraft. Or maybe you will, who am I to judge? If you want to meet girls, most likely you’re going to have to leave your house. I know, it’s a big step, but it’s a crucial one.

Y ou want a girlfriend who is better and hotter than anything you’ve ever experienced before. You’re not just into beauty and looks, although it’s not something you want to dismiss, you also want her personality to be amazing and easy to get along with. Totally understandable.

Now, one thing to point out is that you don’t have to talk to a woman like that all the time. What you may have noticed is that some guys, when they meet women, are able to start talking to them and sparks fly immediately between themselves and the woman. Dan Bacon is a dating and relationship expert and the author of The Flow, an eBook that teaches you the easiest way to get laid or get a girlfriend.

You have to move from uncertainty to certainty, and that means putting a label on the relationship. Plenty of people reject the idea of labels, but it helps to call her your girlfriend when is she your girlfriend. It sets parameters and expectations.

Of course, if you’re taking risks and interacting with those women, it also becomes more apparent that they’re just regular people like you. Whatever your story is about why you can’t get a girlfriend — you’re too short, too bald, too poor, too ugly — is not the REAL reason you don’t have a girlfriend. And it’s not about money, status, or power either.

RULE 1: Take full responsibility for your part in everything.

• Dating should be fun.
• After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.
• Cut the mixed signals and be honest with yourself.
• But before that, you should take care to remind her at times that this is a man talking to a woman, with all that that entails.

So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’. How do you know if you’re doing this or not?

It really starts with you. You decide if you’re really ready for a girlfriend. I know, you may be thinking, but why do I have to check if I’m ready?

You might be able to get lucky every now and again when you meet a woman and you don’t have to do anything and she likes you, but that is not a consistent reliable approach to get a girlfriend. When you do, what you’ll notice is that many of the women you meet feel attracted to you and they show you their girly side.

When you see her next, just ask her for her phone number. It’s pretty straightforward and to the point. If your girl happens to like to sit at the front of the class, this is a super smart way to ask her out.

Yes, most women do not prefer a short guy, but they will happily accept a short guy if he is confident and masculine (in how he thinks, behaves and takes action in life) enough. If you have that type of belief about height and women, then you will always see evidence of it. However, if you are willing to look at the small percentage of short guys who are really confident and masculine, but not successful in life, you will notice that they always have a hot woman.

The principles here will help you make sure that when you find the girl of your dreams… you’ll know how to get her and build the relationship you desire. Yet, for the most part when you meet a woman, if you want her to be your girlfriend, then get to a first kiss, have sex with her, start dating and you’ll naturally get into a relationship with her. Keep it light and casual when you start dating a girl.