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Many older women will be happy to date you, pending, you don’t make them feel like an older woman. This is the key. If you are younger by a significant amount, this will be the elephant in the room at first. But the more you treat her as if she is a complete equal, avoid commenting on it, and make her feel young, the more age will become a non-factor. After going out on 100 first dates in 2 years, Lisa Shield found the love of her life online.

Those guys who aren’t in it for the kudos will quickly find out that dating an older woman isn’t a one-sided affair in the slightest. That’s right, younger chaps also stand to benefit too. Under the tutelage of a more mature acquaintance, a young man can learn a lot about life and the meaning of things, both mentally and physically.

Family and friends may not approve. There is still all kinds of stigma around dating older women. (We’ll talk more about this later.) Though unfair, the fact remains that sharing your relationship with family and friends may invite negative comments which put a strain on your relationships with them. Not surprisingly, sex is a factor. Most women hit their sexual peak in their forties, and enjoy the increased stamina (as well as the greater physical attraction) that a younger partner can provide.

In the end, it’s up to you to weigh the pros and cons of such a relationship and decide if it is right for you right now. Let’s see, the prospect of mind-blowing sex with an experienced, confident woman, without the expectation of a long-term commitment — I know, it’s a tough call.

The life that I had growing up was too tough for me. I grew up deprived and I definitely did not want that for a child. I never wanted to bring a child onto this earth unless I could support that child and give it everything that it wanted. [After Mel], I also went out with Mick Jagger.

  • And your concern about being chosen can lead you to ignore warning signs or settle for someone who isn’t really right for you.
  • From the previous argument comes the next one.
  • His global dating journey eventually allowed him to meet the woman of his dreams.
  • People tend to accept it as the norm, but people don’t seem to chat nearly as much about relationships between younger men and older women.
  • Instead, pack it in and move on to something new.
  • She’ll be independent with her own routines, interests and friends.

It is okay to learn from mistakes, and adult people have made plenty of them. Thus, thanks to their missteps and gained experience, they have a better understanding of how to avoid those issues in the current relationships.

1. They can hold better conversations.

And especially for sitting me down with Doris. You know, you hear a song all your life, and you don’t think how it applies to you. I always loved Doris Day.

So can yielding to a potential date who wants to move faster than we do. Don’t let him rush you. Suggest an email or two and older women dating then a phone call. Give yourself time to get to know this stranger and figure out whether he has what you’re looking for.

7. They’re more open to trying new things.

There’s always that slight intimidation factor in the back of your mind as a younger man trying to woo an older, attractive woman. And older, attractive women can sense guys who are confident in themselves from a mile away. If you let this intimidation take over, your chances of wooing her are over. But if you can get over it, you’ll almost always be fine. Robert is the author of THE GUYS’ GUY’S GUIDE TO LOVE, a novel called the “men’s successor to Sex and the City”.